But just a side note while a friend takes his shower. There were a number of friends at the Grind that I hadn't seen for a rather long time. One of them asked me for a backrub. I was giving her one in a chair since that was what was available but there kept being problems due to clothes or because I couldn't exert the right pressure. So, I asked the DM if the massage table was open. It wasn't then but after a bit it was. I then got to give someone a full-body massage.1 I'd forgotten how much I enjoyed that. I stopped giving them for a while because I didn't want to freak out cindygerb. I need to practice though. I'm not as good as I used to be. I'm going to enjoy getting back into this.
1. Note that full-body massage is designed to relax. If the same sort of touch is designed to excite and arouse, that is sensation play rather than massage.