Torin/Darren WhoEver (wolfieboy) wrote,
Torin/Darren WhoEver

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On communication and intimacy

I really like talking. Just about everyone that has been around me knows this. Talking and conversational rapport are my favorite things to do. I find that this is really the way that I become intimate with someone. It's much more important to me to become intellectually intimate with someone than for me to be physically intimate. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy the physical intimacy but between the two, I will take intellectual intimacy everytime.

What I'm finding is that as I grow closer to someone, I need more communication. This is one of the reasons that Cindy and I talk all the time. I find that while I can stay in a holding pattern for a short period of time, the level of communication indicates to me some of the level of intimacy. Sorry for that statement to be so equivocal but I'm still learning about this.
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